There is a wonderful principle that helps us create what we want in our lives.
Imagine that the world is a mirror, and whatever you put out into it will come back to you if you want to be loved, then be loving. If you want to be respected, the be respectful to others. If you want to be forgiven then be forgiving.
Ironically, we sometimes have a tendency to go about this backwards. We get angry and critical towards someone because we want more attention. No wonder we get frustrated when we are not getting what we want, and using the"backwards" approach only brings more of what we do not want. We set up negative downward spirals, and blame others in our lives for what has been created. That is like blaming the mirror for what it reflects bact to us.
We will never get something positive by taking a negative approach. You might get cooperation in the moment, but at the cost of under lying resentment.
Conversely, when when you begin a new approach of only putting positive energy out into the world, you may not immediately get positive responses in return. However, if you continue to model the behavior and attributes you would like to see in others, gradually you will notice the shift.
The only catch is that you must be sincere. If you faking being nice, co- operative, reasonable and soft-spoken, while your underlying feelings still hold remnants of criticism and judgment, it will not work.....
So before we blame someone try to analyzed may nagawa ba ako.... It just simple when you have submitted a group project and you and your group-mates got the lowest grade on that certain project try not to blame others.,,, kasi malay natin mas madami silang naitulong kaysa sa iyo. Appreciate na lang kung ano ung nakayanan niyong gawin ang be thankful na hindi kayo na zero dahil lang sa wala kayong nagawa....
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