Sunday, July 18, 2010

HOW TO DEAL WITH BACKSTABBERS

They might say they are your best friends but the moment your back is turned, they lie about you to others. No one wants to hurt in this way,,, but the question is how we able to deal with them..
All backstabbers share a common denominator: they all want something from you and it varies from person to person.. pay attention to red flags.. if something is mean to you one minute and nice to you the next there is definitely something wrong.. trust your real friends they are here to help you.. try to detect from an early stage what the backstabbers is interested in sucking from you.

Get away from this people as soon as possible and convince others not to associate with them. Also do not tell any secret that you want to kept hidden, as they will tell it to another one of their "FRIENDS" the moment they will gain them something...Treat him/her like you would any other snake. Be polite when his/ her area but keep to the path and maintain your distance.

Do not get angry when he backstabs you. Realize from the start it will happen eventually. Do not form any deep relationship with them. Be careful when you talk to backstabbers, they might recording you



Why i am telling of those things,, it is because I already experienced to be one who is being back-stab...hindi natin masasabi kung sino ang tunay na kaibigan at kung sino ang hindi.. dahil madaming tao na gusto sila lang iyong magaling...That's life...may backstabbers at may mega backstabbers.. ahaha...




Siguro hindi sila makakasurvive kung hindi sila magbabackstab,,, ahaha


till next time.. beware

1 comment:

  1. haha.... cguro ang the best n gwin mo s mga taong ganyan ay ipagpray... tama!!!!!!!!!

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